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Library of Favorite Books |
When
I am dead
I hope it may be said:
His sins were scarlet
But his books were read.
Hillaire Belloc
The average American reads less than one book per year. According
to a Gallup study of the most successful men and women in America,
reading one non-fiction book per month will put you in the top one
percent of successful Americans.
Here are my favorite books for finding balance in your life. For
your convenience you may order from Amazon with just a click.
| Balance and Inspiration |
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The
Office Sutras: Exercises for Your Soul at Work
Marcia Menter
$10.17
Is it possible to seek enlightenment-to feel alive and
whole and useful and joyful in an imperfect job? The
Office Sutras can help transform any job-even one you
hate-into an active part of spiritual practice. Work can
be an arena that challenges you spiritually as well as professionally. |
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More
Than Meets the Eye: The Story of a Remarkable Life and
a Transcending Love
Joan Brock
$5.99
This is a wonderful story of love, devotion, and courage;
the courage to have an attitude to adapt and make the best
of whatever situation you are in. |
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The
Pull of the Moon
Elizabeth Berg
$6.29
Nan turns 50 and hits the road, leaving behind her husband
of 25 years and a daughter bound for college. At midlife,
she is deeply unsatisfied with the way things are going.
Alternating between diary entries and letters sent to her
husband, Nan reveals her fear of aging and her encounters
with people on the road. She takes the time to conquer
small fears and to revel in small pleasures. She makes
some concrete decisions on how she will change her, and
she doesn't end her trip until she's absolutely ready. |
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Simple
Abundance: A Day Book of Comfort and Joy
Sarah Ban Breathnach
$14.28
This book features 366 essays penned from a woman's perspective.
Sample topics include gratitude, harmony, self-nurturing,
positive body image, the importance of scented linen closets,
and many others. Each essay sports a pithy quote from the
likes of Kahlil Gibran. |
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The
Tipping Point
Malcolm Gladwell
$10.17
"The best way to understand the dramatic transformation
of unknown books into bestsellers, or the rise of teenage
smoking, or the phenomena of word of mouth or any number
of the other mysterious changes that mark everyday life," writes
Malcolm Gladwell, "is to think of them as epidemics.
Ideas and products and messages and behaviors spread just
like viruses do." Gladwell develops these and
other concepts through simple, clear explanations and entertainingly
illustrative anecdotes. |
| Romance/Relationship |
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The
Good Marriage: How and Why Love Lasts
Judith Wallerstein
$10.17
Inspired by the hope that the experience of satisfied
husbands and wives might provide useful lessons to others,
Wallerstein, a clinical psychologist and specialist on
divorce, and Sandra Blakeslee, who writes frequently for The
New York Times, interviewed 50 predominantly middle-class,
northern California couples who had been married nine years
or more and had at least one child. These strong marriages
flourish, they argue, because every partner confronted
a series of psychological tasks including separating emotionally
from the family of childhood, carving out his or her autonomy
and creating an environment where anger and conflict could
be safely vented. The couples reveal their interior lives
in rich, explicit detail. |
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1001
Ways to Be Romantic
Gregory Godek
$11.87
Gregory
J.P. Godek--dubbed America's Romance Coach--offers 1001
creative, sexy, loving tips and ideas. Packed with advice,
from "Little Things That Mean a Lot" to "The
Mindset of a Romantic" and "Making Beautiful
Music Together," Godek's straightforward approach
is perfect for those new to romance or those needing a
refresher course in the art of love. |
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Tongue
Fu: How to Deflect, Disarm and Diffuse Any Verbal Conflict
Sam Horn
$7.25
Control how to respond to criticism and how to direct
arguments and negative communications through Horn's deft
explanations of the fine art of 'tongue fu'. This gives
plenty of case history examples on how to deflect and defuse
any verbal conflict, presenting 'action plans' for changing
both individual and group communications patterns. An intriguing,
positive approach. |
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The
Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical
Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
John Gottman
$10.17
Through a series of in-depth quizzes, checklists, and
exercises, similar to the ones he uses in his workshops,
Gottman provides the framework for coping with differences
and strengthening your marriage. His profiles of troubled
couples rescued from the brink of divorce, and those of
still-happy couples who reinvigorate their relationships,
are equally enlightening. |
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Wisdom
of the Enneagram
Don Riso and Russ Hudson
$13.60
Designed with a plenitude of charts, boxes, and quotes,
this exceptionally easy-to-use, manual-size paperback teaches
the reader how to figure out which of the nine types he/she
is, identifies red flags to self-illusion, and provides
practical suggestions for spiritual growth. Advice on how
to observe your type's fixations and let go of the need
to act out automatic and dysfunctional behavioral responses
are down-to-earth and attainable. A distinctly accessible
approach to cultivating daily happiness through understanding
the complexity of fixations that weave together human personality
types. |
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Keeping
the Love You Find
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
$10.50
For the first time in our cultural history, being single
is considered by some to be a preferred life-style. |
| Parenting |
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The
Mom Book: 4278 of Mom' Central's Tips… For Moms
from Moms
Marcia Menter
$13.57
What a great book! It's chock-full of easy-to-read tips
from parents. The book empowers you to learn from moms
like you who have been there, done it, and gotten the 'I'm
trying to be a supermom' T-shirt. A must read for all who
are Moms, or those who are about to become Mothers. |
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Get
Out of My Life but First Can You Drive Me and Cheryl
to the Mall: A Parent's Guide to the New Teenager
Anthony Wolf
$9.75
This
is a survival guide for parents who find themselves marooned
among volatile and incomprehensible aliens on Planet
Teen. There are chapters on school, sex, suicide, and
so on--but it's the title of Chapter 2, "What
They Do and Why," that best captures the book's
spirit and technique. Anthony Wolf's modus operandi is
not so much to make pronouncements about what parents should
do, as to explain adolescent behavior in a way that's bound
to leave parents with a changed view of the plausible options. |
| Health |
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Apples
and Pears: The Body Shape Solution for Weight Loss and
Wellness
Marie Savard, MD
$16.47
Understand what body shape means, how it is formed, how
it changes, and how it relates to your health. Learn why
all fat is not created equal. Discover the Elite foods
that help protect against disease, promote general wellness,
and improve your odds of shedding fat. Find out why the
human body is not designed to give up weight easily --
and learn what you can do to lose more weight with less
effort. |
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Cancer
as a Turning Point: A Handbook for People with Cancer,
Their Families and Health Professionals
Lawrence LeShan
$9.71
A state-of-the-art handbook counseling readers on how
to realize their self-healing abilities by employing methods
dramatized here in case histories. The book details strategies
to promote psychological change and teaches techniques
(active visualization, classical meditation) that encourage
cancer victims to fight the disease. |
| Spirituality |
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Seven
Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment
of Your Dreams
Deepak Chopra
$10.20
Teilhard
de Chardin said, "We are spiritual beings
having a human experience." Chopra builds on this
powerful thought in this recording that expands his life's
work in spiritual approaches to daily living. He explains
the laws of pure potentiality, giving, karma, least effort,
intention and desire, detachment, and dharma and includes
useful suggestions on how to apply these fundamental, natural
principles if one is truly searching for purpose and a
satisfying life. |
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The
Alchemist: A Fable about Following Your Dream
$9.75
The charming tale of Santiago, a shepherd boy, who dreams
of seeing the world and the many lessons learned during
his adventures. Santiago journeys from Spain to Morocco
in search of worldly success, and eventually to Egypt,
where a fateful encounter with an alchemist brings him
at last to self-understanding and spiritual enlightenment.
The story has the comic charm, dramatic tension and psychological
intensity of a fairy tale, but it's full of specific wisdom
as well, about becoming self-empowered, overcoming depression,
and believing in dreams. The cumulative effect is like
hearing a wonderful bedtime story from an inspirational
psychiatrist. |
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The
Spontaneous Fulfillment of Your Desires: Harnessing the
Power of Coincidence
Deepak Chopra
$16.50
The visible, rational world most of us are familiar with
is only a small part of life. Beyond that visible world
is a sea of possibility that connects us to every other
living thing and, thus, to a pool of intelligence that
can help us move far beyond anything we could strive for
individually in the material world. The paradox is that
only surrendering the egoistic self to this broader intelligence
gives us the freedom to create our individual destiny. |
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Angel
Wisdom: 365 Meditations and Insights from the Heavens
Terry Lynn Taylor
$10.20
Taylor, who has four previous works relating to angels,
here presents a collection of meditations meant to tune
the individual into the consciousness that everyone is
divine. Arranged by topic, from decisions and worry to
money, anger, and birds, each entry begins with a quote
or sentence that sets the tone. Following the quote are
a commentary and an exercise, then a reflection designed
to deepen the meditation. The meditations are well thought
out and gentle in spirit. |
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When
Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
Pema Chodron
$10.36
In When Things Fall Apart this head of a Tibetan
monastery in Canada outlines some relevant and deceptively
profound terms of Tibetan Buddhism that are germane to
modern issues. The key to all of these terms is accepting
that in the final analysis, life is groundless. By letting
go, we free ourselves to face fear and obstacles and offer
ourselves unflinchingly to others. |
| Creativity |
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Creative
Visualization: Use the Power of Your Imagination to Create
What You Want in Life
Shaki Gawain
$9.71
The fundamental process of creative visualization is simply
this-to imagine as clearly and realistically as possible
what you want to happen, as if it has already happened
or is already happening, thus creating an inner experience
of what it would be like to have your desire come true. |
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The
Artist's Way: The Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity
Julia Cameron
$10.85
With the basic principle that creative expression is the
natural direction of life, Julia Cameron and Mark Bryan
lead you through a comprehensive twelve-week program to
recover your creativity from a variety of blocks, including
limiting beliefs, fear, self-sabotage, jealousy, guilt,
addictions, and other inhibiting forces, replacing them
with artistic confidence and productivity. |
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Bird
by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life
Anne Lamott
$10.36
Think you've got a book inside of you? Anne Lamott isn't
afraid to help you let it out. She'll help you find your
passion and your voice, beginning from the first really
crummy draft to the peculiar letdown of publication. Readers
will be seduced by Lamott's witty take on the reality of
a writer's life, which has little to do with literary parties
and a lot to do with jealousy, writer's block and going
for broke with each paragraph. Marvelously wise and best
of all, great reading. |
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Chicken
Soup for the Caregivers Soul
Jack Canfield and LeAnn Thieman
$9.71
Whether
they’ve chosen caregiving as a profession
or caregiving has chosen them, the caregiver’s daily
commitment and sacrifice are true testaments to the human
spirit. Currently, the few caregiving books on the market
offer “How-to” solutions to ease caregiver
burnout, but no other books offer inspirational stories
of real-life experiences that will replace possible guilt,
resentment and frustration with hope, courage, and strength.
The need to be understood is said to be the greatest human
need - this book offers that understanding, bringing uplifting
and comforting insights to fill caregivers with renewed
hope, courage, and strength. |
| Business |
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Blink
Malcolm Gladwell
$15.57
Malcolm
Gladwell displays again in this entertaining and illuminating
look at how we make snap judgments—about
people's intentions, the authenticity of a work of art,
even military strategy. Gladwell's conclusion, after
studying how people make instant decisions in a wide range
of fields from psychology to police work, is that we can
make better instant judgments by training our mind and
senses to focus on the most relevant facts—and that
less input (as long as it's the right input) is better
than more. |
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The
Fred Factor
Mark Sanborn
$10.17
In
his powerful new book THE FRED FACTOR, motivational speaker
Mark Sanborn recounts the true story of Fred, the mail
carrier who passionately loves his job and who genuinely
cares about the people he serves. Where others might see
delivering mail as monotonous drudgery, Fred sees an opportunity
to make a difference in the lives of those he serves. Mark
Sanborn illuminates the simple steps each of us
can take to transform our own lives from the ordinary – into
the extraordinary. Sanborn, through stories about Fred
and others like him, reveals the four basic principles
that will help us bring fresh energy and creativity to
our life and work: how to make a real difference everyday,
how to become more successful by building strong relationships,
how to create real value for others without spending a
penny, and how to constantly reinvent yourself.
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